Sean texted me at work and told me he wanted to talk when he got home.

And we did

It was a good talk.

As far as money went, well there is a problem for us because we are both spenders. No ying and yang here and we have always been like that. We really have to work on spending and not going crazy. We have a pattern of spending into debt consolidating and running it up again.

One solution he thought of was getting a part time job. We could use the money but then again he would either have to give up his off days or not be around more then he is already not now. Which is not great…..

Then at his work management decided they needed a manger of his department and he decided to apply for it. He has a good chance because he has the most seniority in the department and is very well liked by staff and management. So fingers crossed……..

We decided we needed to spend more time with each other and with the kids in a positive manner. So for us as a couple, we have to spend an hour with other doing what the other liked. I love my night time TV so he looked at the shows I like and picked one to watch with me. House on Tuesday nights. So now I will spend an hour with him this weekend doing something he likes, probably on the computer.

We are working on what to do with the kids. It is hard. They fight with each other so much. The drive each other crazy and in turn drive us crazy. I am trying to work on a routine with them but they just do not listen……

As for the sex issues, he has agreed to see my doctor. My doctor is great. She works on a problem will she solves it and does not give up or write you a prescription to get rid of you.

So needless to say things are looking better. I myself I have to work on not letting something small get me down. This is the problem with depression. It is always a struggle I have. I have to look up and look forward. And pray a lot. I pray to God and my mom a lot.

I want to say thank you to all of my blogging buddies I hear from this week. It is nice to see you are all still around and sending your support

Take care of yourselves!